Description
COURT CASE:
- unforgiveness
- being so wrapped up in the wrong that we can’t enjoy the present
- bringing anger and bitterness into every relationship and new experience
- experiencing bursts of anger
- having difficulty and/or unable to reframe our experiences
- not taking responsibility for our feelings
- having difficulty and/or unable to move on from the hurt
- bringing up past mistakes and/or negative things that the other party already apologized for
- pettiness
- impulsive
- compulsive
- holding grudges
- injustice
- agony
- torment
- bitterness
- anger
- resentment
- hurt
- deep hurt
- losing our trust in the offending party
- being unwilling to give the offending party another chance to change for the better
- unrepentance
- stubbornness
- hard hearted
- uncooperative
- unwilling to change for the better
- unwilling to change our thinking
- unwilling to change how we talk
- unwilling to change how we act
- not renewing our minds and actively working on how to change our thinking, how we talk, and/or how we act
- not giving a genuine, heartfelt, and well thought out apology
- not apologizing at all
- never apologizing
- apologizing even though we don’t know what we did wrong and just saying the words “sorry” but not meaning it
- apologizing and then quickly blaming the other party for why we said and/or did the things that we said and/or did
- apologizing and then justifying our words and/or actions
- giving a delayed apology
- apologizing when it’s too late
- realizing how we were wrong too late
- not giving genuine apologies-especially when we have the ability to do so
- not feeling sorry at all for how we’ve negatively affected the other party
- not realizing where we were wrong
- being blind to our own shortcomings, mistakes, and/or how we negatively affected the other party
- not doing self-reflection
- not caring if we hurt the other party
- having a victim mentality
- saying that we’re sorry but then going right back into doing what is was that hurt the other party
- taking advantage of the other party’s kindness and going right back into hurting the other party again
- apologizing but not having a plan on how we’re going to change for the better
- guilt tripping and blaming the other party for having resentment, anger, or hurt against us after we’ve hurt them
- shamelessness
- selfishness
- only caring about ourselves and not the other party
- pride
- thinking that we can do no wrong
- thinking that it will hurt our ego or make us look weak if we admit that we were wrong
- thinking that it’s beneath us to apologize
- the category/kingdom of unforgiveness, unrepentance, anger, bitterness, hurt, and pride spirits
