Description
COURT CASE:
- narcissism
- being a narcissist
- being accused of being a narcissist
- being labeled as a narcissist
- being diagnosed as a narcissist
- being exposed to a narcissist
- experiencing narcissistic abuse
- conceitedness
- being conceited
- being exposed to people who are conceited
- being self-important
- being exposed to self-important people
- being obnoxious
- being exposed to obnoxious people
- ungratefulness
- being ungrateful
- being exposed to ungrateful people
- having a sense of entitlement
- being exposed to people with a sense of entitlement
- being unappreciative
- being exposed to people who are unappreciative
- being vain and/or shallow
- being exposed to people who are vain and/or shallow
- being selfish
- being exposed to people who are selfish
- being inconsiderate
- being exposed to people who are inconsiderate
- being insensitive
- being exposed to people who are insensitive
- being too blunt to the point of being hurtful
- being exposed to people who are too blunt to the point of being hurtful
- caring only about ourselves
- being exposed to people who care only about themselves
- only caring about whether or not others make us look good
- being exposed to people who only care whether we make them look good
- being a liar
- others lying to us
- gaslighting others
- being gaslighted
- displaying “toxic amnesia” where we pretend to not remember events or conversations
- others displaying “toxic amnesia” where they pretend to not remember events of conversations, and say or imply that we’re making things up
- denying everything that could work against us
- being exposed to people who deny anything that could work against them-even when there’s evidence to prove it
- us violating other people’s boundaries
- others violating our boundaries
- undermining others
- others undermining us
- demeaning others
- being demeaned
- criticizing others
- being criticized by others-even if it’s uncalled for
- being criticized publicly
- being publicly shamed
- denigrating others
- others denigrating us
- making others look crazy
- others making us look crazy
- being envious of others
- others being envious of us
- being jealous of others
- others being jealous of us
- us not liking it when others do better than us and/or outperforming us
- people not liking it when we do better than them and/or outperform them
- us having a difficult time being happy for others
- others not being happy for us
- lying so that we can avoid responsibility
- others lying to us so that they can avoid responsibility-especially if they have any responsibility toward us
- wanting to be the center of attention all of the time
- being exposed to people who want to be the center of attention all of the time
- turning any incident that we can to reroute attention back to us
- being exposed to people who take any incident to reroute attention back to them
- manipulating other people’s emotions in order to feed on their pain
- others manipulating our emotions in order to feed on our pain
- being selfish
- others being selfish toward us
- being willful and/or stubborn and insisting on having things our way-even if it will negatively affect others
- being exposed to people who are willful and/or stubborn and insisting on having things their way-even if it negatively affects us
- being self-absorbed
- being exposed to people who are self-absorbed
- being defensive
- others being defensive toward us
- being extremely sensitive to any criticism-even if it’s said with love in a way that is respectful
- others being extremely sensitive to any criticism that we give them-even if it’s said with love in a way that is respectful
- terrorizing others
- others terrorizing us
- harassing others
- being harassed by others
- being petty and infantile
- others being petty and infantile toward us
- being shameless and thick skinned
- others being shameless and thick skinned toward us
- having no conscience
- others having no conscience regarding how they treat us
- being exposed to people who have no conscience
- being aggressive
- others being aggressive toward us
- being exploitative
- being exploited
- taking advantage of others of in any way, shape, or form
- being taken advantage of in any way, shape, or form
- never being there for others-especially during times when we are needed the most
- others never being there for us-especially during times when we need someone the most
- being unsupportive
- others being unsupportive toward us
- being uncaring
- others being uncaring toward us
- coercing others to say and/or do what we want
- being coerced to say and/or do what we don’t want to do
- being a bully
- bullying others
- being bullied in any way, shape, and/or form
- forcing others to say and/or do what we want
- being forced to say and/or do what we don’t want to do
- blackmailing others
- others blackmailing us
- causing chaos
- others causing chaos in our lives
- fragmenting other people’s souls
- others fragmenting our souls
- always perceiving ourselves only as the “victim” and never as the perpetrator
- being exposed to people who always perceive themselves to be “victims” and never as the perpetrator-even when they’re the ones attacking us, bullying us, hurting us, abusing us, and/or negatively affecting us
- rarely ever seeing and/or never seeing others, and their needs, their love for us, their pain, their loneliness, and/or their accomplishments
- others rarely ever seeing and/or never seeing us, and our needs, our love for them, our pain, our loneliness, and/or our accomplishments
- perceiving everything to be about us
- being exposed to people who perceive everything to be about them
- making everything about us
- being exposed to people who make everything to be about them
- thinking that the world revolves around us
- being exposed to others who think that the world revolves around them
- contributing little to no effort in making our relationships loving and respectful
- others contributing little to no effort in making their relationship with us loving and respectful
- only wanting things our way
- being exposed to others who only want things their way
- never admitting that we’re wrong
- being exposed to others who never admit that they’re wrong
- being in relationships with people who never admit that they’re wrong
- being under the authority of people who never admit that they’re wrong and/or who think that they can do no wrong
- being unapologetic
- others being unapologetic toward us
- not giving sincere apologies
- others not giving us sincere apologies
- apologizing by further justifying our hurtful actions
- being exposed to people who apologize by further justifying their hurtful actions against us
- apologizing but then blaming others for how we negatively treated them
- being exposed to people who apologize but then blame us for why they treated us negatively
- giving forced apologies
- others giving us forced apologies
- apologizing but not truly meaning it
- apologizing for something but then going right back into doing what we apologized about
- being exposed to people who apologize but don’t truly mean it and they go right back to doing to us what they apologized about
- giving people silent treatments and/or neglecting others up to several weeks, if not years at a time-especially if those people pointed out one of our flaws
- being exposed to people who give us silent treatments and neglect us up to several weeks, if not years, at a time-especially if we point out one of their flaws
- projecting our own thoughts, feelings, emotions, traumas, fears, pains, and/or other problems on to others
- others projecting their own thoughts, feelings, emotions, traumas, fears, pains, and/or other problems on to us
- always wanting to be right-even when we’re blatantly wrong
- being exposed to people who always want to be right-even when they’re blatantly wrong
- thinking that nothing is ever our fault
- being exposed to people who think that nothing is ever their fault
- not doing any self-reflection to determine if we actually are wrong and need to repent, apologize, and/or to change our ways
- being exposed to people who don’t do any self-reflection, and don’t reflect on whether or not they are actually wrong and need to repent, apologize, and/or to change their ways
- always thinking that we’re right
- being exposed to people who think that they’re always right
- thinking that we’re never wrong about anything
- being exposed to people who think that they’re never wrong about anything
- having difficulty and/or unable to entertain the idea that we might in fact be wrong
- being exposed to people who can’t entertain the idea that they might be wrong
- thinking that we can do no wrong no matter what we do
- being exposed to people who think that they can do no wrong no matter what they do
- others apologizing to us even when they’ve nothing wrong as an attempt to stay safe from us
- us having to apologize even when we’ve done nothing wrong as an attempt to stay safe from narcissistic people
- being controlling
- others being controlling toward us
- being manipulative
- others being manipulative toward us
- feeling manipulated
- not taking responsibility for our own actions
- manipulating others by putting the focus back on them
- being exposed to others who don’t take responsibility for their own actions and who manipulate us by putting the focus back on us
- bringing up something that someone else did so that we can avoid having to take responsibility for our own actions
- bringing up something that someone else needs to do so that we can avoid having to take responsibility for our own actions
- bringing up someone else’s imperfection, mistakes, and/or weaknesses so that we can avoid having to take responsibility for our own actions
- being exposed to people who bring up something we did and/or something that we need to do and using our imperfection as a way for them to avoid having to take responsibility for their own actions
- others criticizing our imperfections, mistakes, and/or weaknesses so that they don’t have to take responsibility for their own actions
- using other people’s difficulties, imperfections, flaws, weaknesses, and/or secrets as ammunition so that we can have something to use against them
- others using our difficulties, imperfections, flaws, weaknesses, and/or secrets as ammunition so that they can have something to use against us
- perceiving others as our property and/or slave
- others perceiving us as their property and/or slave
- treating others like our personal drivers, butlers, servants, and/or slaves
- others treating us like we’re their personal drivers, butlers, servants, and/or slaves
- being so sensitive to feeling inadequate, insecure, and/or shameful that if others criticize us, show disappointment in us, and/or even ask us for something that we don’t feel equipped to offer, then we shut down completely and get distant, avoidant, and/or pouty
- being so sensitive to feeling inadequate, insecure, and/or shameful that if others criticize us, show disappointment in us, and/or even ask us for something that we don’t feel equipped to offer, then we overcompensate and become critical or hostile
- being exposed to people who are so sensitive to feeling inadequate, insecure, and/or shameful that if we criticize them, show disappointment in them, or even ask for something that they don’t feel equipped to offer, then they will either shut down completely and get distant, avoidant, and pouty, or they will overcompensate and become critical or hostile toward us
- being cold and emotionally distant
- others being cold and emotionally distant toward us
- being avoidant
- others avoiding us
- being avoided-especially when we did nothing wrong to them
- avoiding our responsibilities
- avoiding our responsibilities to our parents, siblings, spouses, children, family, friends, bosses, business partners, coworkers, clients, community, networks, and/or anyone else whom we have a responsibility toward
- others avoiding their responsibility toward us
- being pouty
- others being pouty toward us
- being critical
- others being critical toward us
- nitpicking every little thing that people do
- others nitpicking every little thing that we do
- picking people apart and looking for something wrong with them so that we can attack them with it
- others actively looking for something wrong with us
- being hostile
- others being hostile toward us
- having little to no awareness that others have feelings too
- being exposed to others who seem to have no awareness that other people even have feelings
- blaming others
- being blamed
- scapegoating
- using others as a scapegoat
- being used as the scapegoat who takes on all of the blame
- shifting blame
- others shifting blame on us
- destroying other people’s relationships
- sabotaging other people’s relationships
- being exposed to people who destroy and/or sabotage any relationships that we have
- socially isolating others
- being socially isolated
- caging others
- being literally and/or figuratively caged
- trapping others
- being trapped
- diverting the conversation so that it’s always about us
- diverting the conversation so that it’s about us-even if someone is discussing something that they’re going through or something serious that they’re talking about
- being exposed to people who divert the discussion so that it’s about them whenever we talk about our life issues
- trying to top or “one up” other people’s feelings by discussing our own feelings whenever they share their feelings with us
- being exposed to people who try to top or “one up” our feelings with their own whenever we share our feelings with them
- having little to no empathy
- others having little to no empathy toward us
- only supporting things that others do if it makes us look good
- being exposed to people who only support what we do because we make them look good
- having difficulty and/or unable to feel emotionally close and/or to emotionally connect to anyone
- others having difficulty and/or unable to feel emotionally close and/or to emotionally connect with us
- not liking anyone
- being disliked
- not loving anyone
- being unloved
- hating everyone
- being hated
- only saying and/or doing good things when others can witness it
- others only saying and/or doing good things to us and/or for us when other people can witness it
- being fake
- others being fake with us
- when something negative happens to anyone, we react with concern regarding how it will affect us rather than how that person feels
- being exposed to people who react with concern regarding how they will be affected by our problems rather than how we feel
- being overly conscious of what others think of us
- being exposed to others who are overly conscious of what others think of them
- being exposed to people who avoid us and/or who distance themselves from us because they think that we make them look bad
- caring more about what others think of us rather than what the people in our lives, the people who truly matter, think of us
- caring more about what others think of us rather than what God thinks of us
- being exposed to people who care more about what others, especially strangers, think of them rather than what we think of them
- denying our own feelings
- being exposed to people who deny their own feelings
- being easily hurt
- having fragile emotions
- being exposed to people who are easily hurt and/or who have fragile emotions
- being easily hurt and then carrying these grudges for a long time without resolving the problem
- being exposed to people who are easily hurt and then carrying these grudges for a long time without resolving the problem
- holding grudges
- being exposed to people who hold grudges
- others holding grudges against us
- making others feel like they’re responsible for our ailments and/or sicknesses
- not taking responsibility for taking care of our own health
- others making us feel like we’re responsible for their ailments and/or sicknesses
- being exposed to people who don’t take responsibility for their own health, and then us being negatively affected and/or burdened because of it
- making others feel like they’re responsible for taking care of our physical needs
- others making us feel like we’re responsible for taking care of their physical needs
- not accepting others
- not being accepted
- rejecting others
- being rejected
- perceiving that we’ve been rejected-even when we haven’t truly been rejected
- making others feel helpless
- others making us feel helpless
- shaming others
- others making us feel ashamed
- being shamed by others
- not revealing our real selves to others
- others feeling like they don’t really know the real us-even if they’ve spent significant amounts of time with us
- spending significant amounts of time with others, but feeling like we can’t be our real selves around them
- spending significant amounts of time with others, but feeling like they aren’t revealing their real selves to us
- thinking, talking, and/or acting as if the world revolves around us
- being exposed to people who think, talk, and/or act like the world revolves around them
- being two faced
- others being two faced with us
- acting different in public than we do in private
- being exposed to fake, two faced people who act different in public than they do in private
- being kind, sweet, loving, nice, and/or positive in public, but being negative and/or vindictive in private
- being exposed to people who are kind, sweet, loving, nice, and/or positive in public, but being negative and/or vindictive in private
- being critical of others behind their back
- others being critical of us being our backs
- talking badly about others behind their backs
- others talking badly about us behind our backs
- gossiping about others behind their backs
- being gossiped about behind our backs
- slandering others behind their backs
- being slandered behind our backs
- spreading lies about others behind their backs
- others spreading lies about us behind our backs
- spreading rumors about others behind their backs
- others spreading rumors about us behind our backs
- blaming others for our failures
- others blaming us for their failures
- merging our identities with that of others so that they can’t have an identity apart from us
- having difficulty having our own identities that are separate from other people
- controlling other people’s choices
- others controlling our choices
- swinging from being egotistical to depressed moods
- being exposed to others who swing from egotistical to depressed moods
- making others feel like they’re responsible for meeting our emotional needs
- others making us feel responsible for meeting their emotional needs
- coercing, pressuring, and/or forcing others to act differently from how they truly feel
- others coercing, pressuring, and/or forcing us to act differently from how we truly feel
- being competitive to the point that it’s negative and/or toxic
- others trying to compete with us so that they can put us down and feel better about themselves
- always wanting things our way
- being exposed to people who always want things their way
- being exposed to people who always want things their way, and who don’t care if them getting their way negatively affects us
- only valuing people for what they can do for us and not for who they are
- others only valuing us for what we can do for them and not for who we are
- only valuing people who perform well for us
- others only valuing us if we perform well
- others only valuing us based on our performance
- living in a fantasy world of porn and/or affairs
- living in a fantasy world where we think that we’re famous
- being exposed to others who live in a fantasy world of porn, affairs, and/or who dream of being famous
- only being nice when we want something from others
- others only being nice to us when they want something from us
- only being emotionally available when we want something from others
- others only being emotionally available to us when they want something from us
- having little to no sympathy for others
- others having little to no sympathy for us
- provoking others and then blaming them for the fights that we started
- others provoking us to a fight and then blaming us for the fights that they started
- being in a relationship with anyone who exhibits any of these aforementioned problems
- being in any kind of relationship with a narcissist
- having false verdicts and/or generational false verdicts of any of these aforementioned problems
- having word curses of any of these aforementioned problems
- having ownership claims of any of these aforementioned problems
- the buying, selling, and/or trading of our ability to feel compassion, empathy, respect, love, and the ability to care about others to the kingdom of darkness
- the kingdom of darkness having ownership claims over our ability to feel compassion, empathy, respect, love, and the ability to care about others
- the buying, selling, and/or trading of our emotions to the kingdom of darkness
- the kingdom of darkness having ownership claims over our emotions
- the category/kingdom of spirits that cause, contribute to, exacerbate, and/or who reestablish any of these aforementioned problems in our lives