Description
COURT CASE:
- arguing
- being argumentative
- raising our voices against other people
- sounding mad and/or being perceived as sounding mad
- looking mad and/or being perceived as looking mad
- yelling
- screaming
- cussing
- profanity
- threatening
- misunderstandings
- miscommunications
- walking away from people when they’re still talking
- talking over people when they’re talking
- interrupting people when they’re still talking
- putting words in other people’s mouths
- getting easily offended even when the other party wasn’t trying to be offensive
- twisting other people’s words
- jumping to conclusions
- being defensive
- projecting our hurts, pains, insecurities, and problems on to the other party
- making false assumptions
- making false accusations
- making accusatory “you” statements
- arguments that get heated really quickly
- arguing over minor issues
- arguments escalating into full blown fights, and/or relationships ending
- arguments that drag on for extended periods of time
- unforgiveness
- unrepentance
- using unhealthy communication styles
- being aggressive
- being passive aggressive
- being passive
- not being assertive
- being disrespectful
- not respecting other people’s boundaries
- rudeness
- being rude
- fighting
- conflict
- having poor conflict resolution skills
- having poor conflict resolution strategies
- discord
- disagreements
- dissension
- disputes
- quarreling
- antagonism
- bickering
- contention
- strife
- disunity
- division
- division in our homes
- division in our businesses
- division in our workplaces
- division in our schools
- division in our communities
- division in our places of worship
- division in our churches
- division in our ministries
- division in our families
- division with our parents
- division with our siblings, half siblings, step siblings, adoptive siblings, and/or our brothers and sisters in Christ
- division with our spouse
- division with our children
- division with our sons
- division with our daughters
- division with our mother and/or father in laws
- division with our aunts, uncles, cousins, and/or other extended family members
- division in our friendships
- division with our friends
- division with our business partners, bosses, coworkers, and/or clients
- division with other Christians
- division with our congregation members
- offense
- being easily offended
- hurt
- deep hurt
- hurting other people’s feelings
- people hurting our feelings
- relationships ending
- only looking at a situation from our perspective and not looking at things from the other person’s perspective
- butting heads
- being against one another
- perceiving each other as the problem
- having a victim mentality
- only perceiving ourselves as the victim and not the realizing that we’ve also hurt the other party
- pride
- always wanting to be right
- stubbornness
- hardhearted
- stiff-necked
- both parties not listening to other people
- not willing to listen to the other party
- not willing to create a middle ground with the other party
- fighting each other instead of working together to find a solution to the problem
- fighting each other instead of working together to fight the common enemy-namely the kingdom of darkness
- complaining
- complaining about the other party instead of praying for the other party
- placing word curses on the other party
- talking to a toxic person
- the category/kingdom of spirits that cause, contribute to, and/or exacerbate fights among people